How can counseling help you?
The goal of counseling is to empower you
to make informed decisions regarding your need for safety, self-esteem
and acceptance. Counselors at Family Shelter Service are specially
trained in domestic abuse issues. In a safe and friendly environment,
a counselor can provide you with information about domestic abuse
and the support needed to examine your relationship. A counselor
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listen to you and respect your personal experience
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help you to identify and articulate the
issues you are struggling with and to explore your options
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help you to develop personal goals and a plan to accomplish them
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What kinds of counseling are available?
Individual counseling is offered in English
and Spanish and is provided to adults and children for approximately
ten sessions. Teens may attend five sessions without parental consent.
Family counseling includes any other family member that would benefit,
with the exception of the abuser. Group counseling includes:
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Moms & Kids Group
This group offers an interactive
experience for moms and their children. Moms explore the
effects of abuse on themselves and their children. Children learn
alternatives to violent behavior and that the violence in their
family is not their fault. All participants learn about safety
and self-esteem issues. This group is offered in English and Spanish.
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Women's Support Group
This group provides women with the opportunity
to give voice to their experiences and to learn from the wisdom of
other women. Together, they explore the impact of abuse on their
lives, identify their strengths and consider possible options
for change.
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Latina Women's Group
Similar
to the Women's Support Group, this group is conducted in Spanish
and is offered at various locations throughout DuPage County.
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Family Shelter Service does not offer couples
counseling because, generally, it is not effective when domestic
abuse is an issue. Family Shelter Service refers
abusers to another agency in DuPage County for education and counseling.
All counseling is confidential and free of charge.
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"I looked at the other women in the group and wondered if
we shared anything in common. I discovered that we share the same feelings of pain, loss and fear."
- Family Shelter Service Client
"It was such a relief to finally let someone know all that I had been hiding for so long. I felt guilty and embarrassed to let people know the truth."
- Family Shelter Service Client
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